When it comes to the liturgy and its rubrics, the focus is often on body postures and gestures rather than the physical space we occupy within the church. However, the place we choose to sit, our proximity to others, and the distance we maintain can also speak volumes about our attitudes and experiences during the Eucharistic celebration.
Have you ever noticed how coveted the last seats in the church are? Those closest to the door are often the first to be taken, even when the rest of the church remains empty. This preference for certain seats can sometimes leave the celebrant feeling isolated, with empty pews in front of them while the congregation gathers towards the back.
Some prefer to sit in corners where they can observe without being observed, while others value the seclusion provided by columns. The reasons behind our seating choices are worth exploring, as our position in the assembly can reveal much about our state of mind and emotions at that moment.
The concept of space has been extensively studied, giving rise to terms like “social distancing” and “public distancing.” Social distancing refers to the space we create to establish physical and emotional boundaries with others in social settings. The intensity and frequency of this distancing can vary based on individual preferences, with an average social distance ranging from 1.25 to 2 meters during periods of closeness.
During the pandemic, the practice of social distancing extended to the exchange of peace during the Eucharistic celebration, with a simple bow of the head replacing physical contact. This adjustment, along with the strategic positioning of individuals in the church, highlights the significance of personal space and distance in our interactions.
Public distancing, on the other hand, goes beyond social distancing to indicate a noticeable lack of closeness and interaction between individuals. This concept was explored by anthropologist Edward T. Hall through the study of proxemics, which focuses on the use and perception of physical space in social interactions.
As we navigate the dynamics of personal space and distance within the church, it is important to reflect on how our seating choices and interactions with others reflect our values of community, family, and fraternity. Welcoming newcomers and bridging cultural gaps through acts of hospitality can enrich our worship experience and foster a sense of unity among diverse members of the congregation.
Ultimately, as Pope Francis emphasized during the Jubilee Year, the path to hope lies in embracing fraternity and building relationships that transcend physical and cultural barriers. By extending a hand of welcome and creating space for inclusion, we can truly embody the spirit of brotherhood and unity within our faith community.
